Basta LoveLife Podcast

Basta Lovelife: November 26, 2009

Thu, 26 Nov 2009 02:52:00 GMT

Issues about low self-esteem; Dealing with guilt from past sins; "I'm pregnant but we're not married. Is marriage the solution?"

Basta LoveLife, November 18th

Wed, 18 Nov 2009 12:40:00 GMT

In this episode:

"I'm Roman Catholic and my boyfriend is a follower of Islam. Do you think this relationship is a good idea?"

"I'm a freshman in college. There are a couple of guys who are courting me but I'm not ready for a relationship. How do I tell them without hurting their feelings."

"A friend of mine is really obsessed with this guy. She even talks about committing suicide over him. What should I do?"

Basta Lovelife: November 12, 2009

Thu, 12 Nov 2009 03:04:00 GMT

"Love or Infatuation?"; "I like this girl but she doesn't seem to like me back. What can I do so she'll like me?"; "How do I know he/ she is right to be a boyfriend/ girlfriend?"

Basta Lovelife: November 5, 2009

Wed, 4 Nov 2009 15:54:00 GMT

"Is it okay if I ask God for a sign if she's the one or not?"

"What is the right age to have a relationship?"

"A guy is bothering me and won't quit!"

Basta Lovelife: October 29, 2009

Tue, 27 Oct 2009 18:50:00 GMT

"What a man loses in premarital sex." "What do I do with my very critical GF?" "My GF is a bit touchy and affectionate but I'm afraid I'll fall into temptation. How do I tell her without hurting her feelings?"

Basta Lovelife: October 22, 2009

Wed, 21 Oct 2009 17:50:00 GMT

The dynamic duo is back together and we answer your questions:

"Can someone be best-friends and accountability partners after they've had a same sex relationship together?"

"If my boyfriend and I have started having sex already, what can we do?"

"Is it wrong that I lose interest with a girl I've been seeing for a few weeks?"

Basta LoveLife, October 15th

Wed, 14 Oct 2009 05:34:00 GMT

In this episode:
*Review of the "Two Commandments."

*My friend says she's a Christian, but she's involved in a same-sex relationship. She won't listen to me. What should I do?

*I've been dating this girl but I don't think she's the one I want to marry. Should I break up with her?

Basta Lovelife: October 8, 2008

Thu, 8 Oct 2009 05:14:00 GMT

We get down to your questions: "Is it okay to pray for someone who already has a boyfriend and when do I stop praying for her?"; "Where can I meet quality guys other than my church?"; "Is dating a guy ten years younger than I am wrong...specially I'm a woman?"

Basta Lovelife: October 1, 2009

Thu, 1 Oct 2009 04:05:00 GMT

Basta Lovelife Typhoon Ondoy Relief Operation Special

Basta Lovelife: September 24, 2009

Thu, 24 Sep 2009 04:17:00 GMT

We talk about your questions: "I'm 19 but I'm falling someone who is 32. Is it right I start dating him?"; "Is it okay to text and call my ex and start a friendship?"; "Am I still a virgin even though I've had a same sex relationship?"

Basta Lovelife: September 17, 2009

Thu, 17 Sep 2009 04:32:00 GMT

We talk about: "I'm only 16. Why am I attracted to older men 20 and above?"; "I'm a preacher's kid and my father told me that I should finish school first, get a job before I get into a relationship. But I am in love. What should I do?"; "I've been abused as a child. It's been a long time since that happened but I can't seem to move on. What should I do?"

Basta Lovelife: September 10, 2009

Thu, 10 Sep 2009 04:04:00 GMT

In this episode we talk about: "I think my BF is cheating on me though I don't have proof, I still broke up with him. Did I do the right thing?"; "I'm falling for someone I work with in ministry but I'm not sure he feels the same way." and "My BF is not as passionate and committed about our relationship as I am."

Basta Lovelife: August 27, 2009

Sat, 29 Aug 2009 08:30:00 GMT

We answer your emails and text questions: "My ex bf still tells me he loves me even though he's with someone else now"; "If two people are really in love with each other, why is it wrong for them to have sex?"; and "Until what age am I obligated to obey my parents?"

Basta Lovelife: August 20, 2009

Thu, 20 Aug 2009 05:44:00 GMT

Erwin and I talk about your questions: "Is 22 years old too young to get married?"; "Is it okay to ask my BF when he's planning on marrying me?"; and "I'm falling for my cousin. Is this wrong?"

Basta Lovelife: August 13, 2009

Thu, 13 Aug 2009 11:05:00 GMT

We talk about your emails and text questions: "When do I tell my BF or GF about my past (sexual sin)"; "How do I move on from a breakup?"; "My husband seems like he doesn't love me anymore. He's not sweet anymore and doesn't pay attention to me. What should I do?"

Basta Lovelife: August 6, 2009

Thu, 6 Aug 2009 05:40:00 GMT

Topics include: "Lessons from Cory Aquino"; "Is it okay to have sex when we're engaged?"; "Is it a sin to have a relationship with a man who has been separated from his wife for ten years?"; and "Why do guys act like jerks when they like a girl."

Basta Lovelife: July 30, 2009

Thu, 30 Jul 2009 03:25:00 GMT

We answer your questions: "How do I court a girl?"; "Tanan (or running away with your BF or GF)"; and "My brother has been hanging out with the gay crowd and he's acting like them. What should I do?"

Basta Lovelife: July 23, 2009

Thu, 23 Jul 2009 03:13:00 GMT

Topics include: "My ex bf owes me money and he doesn't want to pay me back. What do I do?"; "My ex keeps on texting and calling me after I said not to. Is this stalking?" and "I like this girl at church but I don't have the strength to ask her out. Help me!"

Basta Lovelife: July 16, 2009

Thu, 16 Jul 2009 01:32:00 GMT

We talk about your questions: "Regret that comes from sexual sin"; "I came from a broken home. Is that the reason whyI'm always looking for love from men?"; "My boyfriend always says he's busy and doesn't have time for me, but he has time for his friends. Should I break up with him?"

Basta Lovelife: July 9, 2009

Thu, 9 Jul 2009 02:15:00 GMT

Erwin and I talk about: "Can I avoid arguing or fighting with my BF or GF and is it normal that we fight a lot?"; "My friend and I like the same guy/ girl (love triangle)" and "No easy way out!"

Basta Lovelife: July 2, 2009

Thu, 2 Jul 2009 12:02:00 GMT

We talk about love and relationship issues: Two Timing; "Is it wrong that I think about my ex even though I'm with someone else now?" and "Complications of being best friends with the opposite sex."

Note To Everyone

Fri, 26 Jun 2009 17:09:00 GMT

Hey guys,
Please use http://KuyaKevin.com for questions/comments.

Basta Lovelife: June 25

Fri, 26 Jun 2009 04:57:00 GMT

In this episode, we talk about: "Can men and women become best friends or close friends or will there always be an issue of having romantic feelings between them?"; "Is flirting okay or is it bad?" and "If I say NO but I'm still forced to have sex, is that considered rape?"

June 18, 2009

Thu, 18 Jun 2009 05:43:00 GMT

Erwin and I talk about: "Sexting"; "Is it too soon for my ex BF to text me after he's hurt me?" and "Fear of commitment."

Basta Lovelife: June 11, 2009

Thu, 11 Jun 2009 10:10:00 GMT

Erwin and I talk about the issue of homosexuality and sex same attraction

Basta Lovelife: June 4, 2009

Thu, 4 Jun 2009 06:52:00 GMT

Erwin and I talk about: Purity; "Are Manga comics and anime bad?"; and "Controlling Boyfriends/ Girlfriends"

Basta Lovelife: May 28, 09

Thu, 28 May 2009 05:31:00 GMT

Erwin and I talk about current events: "Lessons learned from a sex video scandal" and Interracial Relationships

Basta Lovelife: May 21, 2009

Wed, 20 May 2009 18:51:00 GMT

"Should I get back together with my ex?"
I give you some thoughts and advice on this question.

Basta Lovelife: May 14, 2009

Wed, 13 May 2009 14:38:00 GMT

This is our "breaking up" episode. Erwin and I talk about our breakup stories, forgiving and trusting, and "should I be friends with my ex?"

Basta Lovelife: May 7, 2009

Wed, 6 May 2009 14:31:00 GMT

Our Mother's Day special and Kevin's birthday bash! We talk about abortion, issues and consequences of unwanted pregnancies, and "what if I am in an unhappy relationship."

Basta Lovelife: April 30

Wed, 29 Apr 2009 23:26:00 GMT

Erwin and I continue our discussion about break-ups and heartaches. We also talk about what the Bible says about pornography and masturbation.

Basta Lovelife: April 23

Wed, 22 Apr 2009 14:04:00 GMT

Erwin and I talk about your email and text messages: "How do I move on after my boyfriend's death?" and "How to deal with break ups."

Basta Lovelife: April 16

Thu, 16 Apr 2009 00:03:00 GMT

We talk about : " The Clueless and the Careless" and "Basted! Unreciprocated Love"

Basta Lovelife: April 9

Thu, 9 Apr 2009 00:37:00 GMT

In this episode, Erwin and I have an awesome topic..."Dealing with the past." We talk about "Where do I stand with God?"; "How will my past afftect my future relationships?" and "When do I tell my girlfriend/ boyfriend about my past?"

Basta Lovelife: April 2

Wed, 1 Apr 2009 13:13:00 GMT

In this episode, Erwin and I discuss: "Love at first sight?"; "How far can I go?" and "Do opposites attract?"

Basta Lovelife: March 26

Wed, 25 Mar 2009 14:21:00 GMT

We talk about: "Long distance relationships: will it work?"; "I have feelings for two different women and both of them like me too. How do I choose?"; "Fear of failure."

Basta Lovelife: March 19

Wed, 18 Mar 2009 15:14:00 GMT

We talk about "Is kissing crossing the line of purity?"; "What does waiting really mean?" and "A night with the band Delirious!"

Basta Lovelife: March 12 Episode

Wed, 11 Mar 2009 15:12:00 GMT

Erwin and I go back to our inbox and answer your email questions such as: "My boyfriend gave me his email and friendster password. Should I snoop around?"; "My friends won't listen to me whenever I talk to them about purity." and "My boyfriend tells me he's lusting and having impure thoughts about me. Is it ok that he tells me these things?"

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Basta Lovelife: March 5

Thu, 5 Mar 2009 00:35:00 GMT

Erwin and I talk about the book/movie "He's Just Not That Into You"

Basta Lovelife: February 26

Wed, 25 Feb 2009 14:57:00 GMT

Erwin and I answer your emails: What should I do if we already had sex? How do I know he's interested in me and not just sex? Why are married men attracted to me?

Basta Lovelife February 19 Episode

Wed, 18 Feb 2009 15:34:00 GMT

We talk about the Two Commandments of Relationships and Learning the Hard Way: Same Sex Relationships.

Feb. 12: Valentines Day Special!

Wed, 11 Feb 2009 17:49:00 GMT

Happy Valentines! In this episode we talk about Valentines Day and should Christians celebrate it. We also give you tips on how to survive as a single person on Valentines and interview people about Valentines Day.

February 5: HIV/abortion, parents objection; relationship with a non-Christian

Tue, 3 Feb 2009 15:47:00 GMT

Erwin and I answer more email questions as we get ready for Valentines Day. Opening segment: HIV and abortion. Question/Answer: parents' objection; long distance relationship with a non-Christian.

January 29 Episode: SMALL FILE SIZE

Thu, 29 Jan 2009 00:40:00 GMT

We answer questions about women making the first move, "MU," and "he's 25 and I'm only 16."

January 29 Episode

Wed, 28 Jan 2009 16:41:00 GMT

We answer questions about women making the first move, "MU," and "he's 25 and I'm only 16."

Jan 22 Episode: We Answer Your Questions (SMALLER FILE SIZE/FASTER DOWLOAD)

Thu, 22 Jan 2009 06:02:00 GMT

Jan 22nd Episode (Smaller File Size; Faster Download).

Matthew 5: Lust, Love and my "Least Favorite" Bible Passage

Sat, 17 Jan 2009 04:49:00 GMT

Matthew 5: Lust, Love and my "Least Favorite" Bible Passage. SMALLER FILE SIZE: LOWER QUALITY/FASTER DOWNLOAD

Episode Four: Over-Spiritualization (Lower Quality/Faster Download)

Thu, 8 Jan 2009 07:03:00 GMT

Erwin and I talk about "over-spiritualizing" issues regarding love and relationships. This is Episode Four in lower quality/smaller file size for a faster download.

Basta LoveLife: New Year's Special

Wed, 31 Dec 2008 17:37:00 GMT

Party, party and party! Plus Seven Questions for the New Year.

Basta Lovelife: Christmas Special

Thu, 25 Dec 2008 09:10:00 GMT

Christmas Fun and Lessons from the Story of Joseph

Episode Three: Consider the Source

Wed, 17 Dec 2008 22:42:00 GMT

Erwin and I continue talking about the confusing sources of advice and how to use good discernment.

Episode Two: Statistics, Q/A; Consider the Source

Wed, 10 Dec 2008 15:44:00 GMT

We're back! Episode Two Consists of 3 separate segments:

1). State of the Philippines: I give some statistics about teenage sexual behavior in the Philippines (note: stats came from the State of the Philippines Population Report)

2). Break-up Question: Erwin and I discuss a question regarding getting over a breakup.

3). Consider the Source: We begin a new discussion regarding the various sources of information and advice our youth are listening to. We'll continue this discussion into Episode Three.

Episode One: Guarding Your Heart

Wed, 3 Dec 2008 17:57:00 GMT

The Basta LoveLife radio show/podcast has begun! In this first episode, I talk about a few steps you can take to guard your heart (Proverbs 4:23).

One Week to Go!

Wed, 26 Nov 2008 23:56:00 GMT

Basta LoveLife, Episode One will be on the air in a week!

Coming to Baguio in December!

Wed, 19 Nov 2008 10:06:00 GMT

Baguio (and surrounding areas), Listen to 97.5 FM (DWLY), Thursday, Wednesday, December 4th, at 8:30 pm for our first episode! Basta LoveLife will be on the air every Thursday night, 8:30-9:30.

John the Baptist: Profile of a Prophet

Tue, 11 Nov 2008 16:34:00 GMT

John the Baptist: Profile of a Prophet. I preached this message on Friday, October 3rd at Full Cup Cafe (Manila, Philippines).

Spiritual Frustration--Psalm 42

Wed, 5 Nov 2008 00:07:00 GMT

Spiritual Frustration: This message is based on Psalm 42. I recorded it on my 35th birthday.

Adam and Eve--A Glimpse of the Garden

Sun, 2 Nov 2008 05:35:00 GMT

I originally preached this message at Full Cup Cafe. It is about God's original plan for sexuality, based on the Genesis creation account. The message is mostly English with a little bit of Tagalog mixed in. NOTE: while this sermon contains no "explicit" material, it does deal with mature subject matter. It is appropriate for teenagers, but not young children (preteens).